When dreaming becomes your favorite way to disappear.
You imagine it.
The perfect outcome.
The someday version of your life — cleaner, clearer, softer, lighter.
You see yourself healed.
In love.
Thriving.
Finally “there.”
And while that vision can inspire you…
it can also detach you.
Because sometimes, dreaming becomes your drug.
Fantasy isn’t hope.
It’s escape dressed up in beautiful language.
You scroll homes you won’t apply for.
You build businesses in your head — and never start.
You imagine the conversation… instead of having it.
It feels productive.
But it’s still avoidance.
You’re floating in the version of your life that requires no risk.
No mess.
No action.
Ask yourself:
- Am I visualizing my future — or avoiding my present?
- Does this inspire action — or replace it?
- What am I afraid to do that’s easier to dream about?
This is the Cushy way.
Vision with groundedness.
Hope that holds hands with action.
Dreams that walk — not just drift.
You’re allowed to imagine more.
But don’t forget — you deserve to live it, not just escape into it.
